So I just so happen to fall in love with a man: Either he is already wealthy or he becomes wealthy during the time that we're together. We get married, start a family, live a very luxurious life. I'm in the house that I've always wanted, I've had the wedding that I've always planned and we party and network with some of the most well-known names in Hollywood. Basically this is the life!
Oh but wait... He cheats! The thought of him being unfaithful to me seems more than I can bear. Just by listening to everyone else's opinion I should immediately divorce him. We have children to be role models for. I choose to listen to my heart and most importantly adhere to the promise that we both made to God. If you have not been cheated on by someone you love you do not know my pain. There's no way he would ever do that to me again; it's completely out of his system.
It happens again. I'm done. I cannot stand for this. I want a divorce.
Oh but wait... He cheats! The thought of him being unfaithful to me seems more than I can bear. Just by listening to everyone else's opinion I should immediately divorce him. We have children to be role models for. I choose to listen to my heart and most importantly adhere to the promise that we both made to God. If you have not been cheated on by someone you love you do not know my pain. There's no way he would ever do that to me again; it's completely out of his system.
It happens again. I'm done. I cannot stand for this. I want a divorce.
Why Am I Being Called A Gold-digger?
Whoa, whoa... Really people? Now I know some gold-diggers (#nocomment) and this is not one of 'em! As a woman (being only interested in your bank account) I'm not a big fan of having two of your kids, sticking with you for 10 1/2 years and going through the public humiliation of your first round of infidelity. This does not fit the role of a gold-digger. Obviously Kobe did not feel this way either, being that they did not sign a prenuptual agreement.
What really constitutes a gold-digger?
Answers that do not mean anything:
- Married to a pro athlete
- Young
- Wanting half ($) after the divorce
It just throws me to hear that when a woman is dating a man worth money, she is immediately perceived as a gold-digger. Especially after a decade long marriage ending in divorce where she actually receives half of the man's fortune. Not ALL women have that in mind. Actually in this new millennium more women have intentions on making their own millions than being forced to rely on that of their husbands. It just so happens that I am one of them!
In defense of many intelligent, ambitious women, I feel that I have a right to know any and everything about my spouse's future financial plans. Being that according to God and the law we are considered one person.
In defense of many intelligent, ambitious women, I feel that I have a right to know any and everything about my spouse's future financial plans. Being that according to God and the law we are considered one person.
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